love.......prema.......pyar......kadal......

I am rather sceptical about love, once in a while, though love surrounds me in its most intense forms every single day. I have never believed in the overdose of red on Valentine's, though red roses are something I drool on.

But you know what, I love love. Because it makes people happy, simple. Be it of any kind. You know you are loved a lot and that feeling alone makes up for all the bad hair days, the really bad days, the power shutdown hours. That feeling of elation makes up for all the lows. To love and to be loved.

Today, I heard some love stories. I remembered a few more. I have lived through some, my own and that of my friends' I was closely part of. 

I believe in love stories that stay untold. I believe ones where letters are written everyday for several decades. I believe that love sustains. I believe in those stories today, mine, some others, of the ones I know. Love is beautiful, is it really?

By

HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

Am i writing anything nonsense

There is again, a torrent of thoughts in my mind. Am I a writer? What am I writing? Does it make any sense at all or does it make too much sense? Why do I write? Do I want people to read and tell me it's good or do I hope, but in vain, that my thoughts, once out there, will not surface again to haunt and nag?

When your writing is taken in the opposite sense of what you wanted it to be, doesn't that make you a not-so-good writer? No, I do not need validation here. I do not need anyone telling me whether I am good or bad. These are thoughts aloud.

I do not mean to hurt, I don't think most people in the world intend to hurt others at all. But yet I seem to, by words, spoken, written. Would it be that I am too forthright? Or maybe, like a mother whose child can never do a wrong, I am blind when I write. Maybe I cannot see what you might when you read it. Maybe that is what hurts.

As a human being, I feel And I used to write here because I wanted you to know how I feel. My feelings probably still trickle out there between these words. But maybe they no longer make any sense.

Save earth its only planet with gals

Girls are a very complex species. By nature, we assume that we know everything about girls, but sadly this is as far from the truth as possible. Try as we may, we cannot solve the conundrum of girls, and the truth is that we never will. There are a number of psychological and evolutionary reasons why girls behave the way they do, and we cannot know all these factors. The first thing that you should know is that every girl is different from others only in their appearance. Inside them, they all have the same nature of motherhood and protective influence which has evolved from the time man was born. While men set out to hunt, women stayed back and protected the nest. This is where these feelings and emotions originated from. Apart from that, you must also remember that every girl, each and every single one of them, just wants to feel special, especially in relationships.

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it?

"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armour, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give then a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

In coll days we have some comitted relationships….is it true..r its just attraction in teenage ? ? ?

Its staying up late for each other & barely staying awake in class the next day. Its passing each other between classes & stopping to say hi, but ending up running to your next class right before the bell rings. Its going to the mall, wandering around hand in hand, with a silence that’s comfortable. Its watching a movie in the theaters with his arm slowly creeping onto her shoulders,&you resting your head in his arms. Its walking around at night, for no reason at all; his chest, her head,lokking at the stars. Its uncertainty of how long it will last, a risk you’re  both willing to take, even if it means you’ll have a broken heart. It’s not yet true love, not like, nor just, nor infatuation. Its teenage love, here to stay, here to play with our hearts & never to go away and finally i just hate these type of relationships:-)

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

How to build a beautiful Life ?

I think there is 6 ways to build a wondeful life

Live Below Your Means : There will always be temptation to forsake the future for immediate gratification. We all want to buy that new piece of technology, treat ourselves to an expensive night on the town, or take out a loan for the flashy car we can’t afford. It might feel great at the time but rash spending hurts a lot later on.

Enjoy life’s simple pleasures and save as much as you can. Expensive things don’t create lasting happiness and security. Careful spending will bring you greater leisure and enjoyment in the long run.

Put Your Money to Work : Saving is great, but to make the most of your money you need to put it to work. Good investments can be the difference between retiring in your 40’s or in your 60’s.

Educate Yourself : To be happy we need continuous growth. The best way to grow is life long education. This doesn’t mean you need to pursue a doctorate or spend 2 hours reading every day. Self education can be anything  that takes you out of your comfort zone. The important part is keeping an open mind and searching for fresh ideas and perspectives.Education builds over time. It might feel like the bits of wisdom you acquire don’t mean much, but over the years they add up to form a wiser, kinder, more interesting person.

 Develop Lasting Personal Relationships : Suppose you had everything you wanted. Would you be happy without anyone to share it with? The personal relationships we develop with friends and family members are the greatest source of happiness in our lives. Don’t forget about them.

Taking the time to cultivate and enjoy personal relationships is essential to longterm happiness. Without the people you care about you’ll probably be miserable, no matter how successful you become.

Work Towards a Dream You’re Passionate About : Even if your life isn’t perfect, you can always build towards a goal you’re passionate about. If you aren’t building towards something, you’re probably stagnating. When this happens to me I start to feel like a victim trapped by my own life. The best way to reverse this is working towards a goal.We can’t control everything about our lives, but working towards a goal gives us something positive to focus on and lays the foundation for future success. No matter what your passion is, get out there and  start doing some thing.  As Lao Tzu said, even a journey of 1,000 miles begins with a single step.

Stay in Shape : You only get one body. Once it’s been ruined there isn’t much you can do about it. Exercise to keep the rust off. Avoid excessive consumption of damaging substances and unhealthy foods. It may feel like terrible self denial at the time but enjoying good health in your later years is worth the sacrifice.

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010