love.......prema.......pyar......kadal......

I am rather sceptical about love, once in a while, though love surrounds me in its most intense forms every single day. I have never believed in the overdose of red on Valentine's, though red roses are something I drool on.

But you know what, I love love. Because it makes people happy, simple. Be it of any kind. You know you are loved a lot and that feeling alone makes up for all the bad hair days, the really bad days, the power shutdown hours. That feeling of elation makes up for all the lows. To love and to be loved.

Today, I heard some love stories. I remembered a few more. I have lived through some, my own and that of my friends' I was closely part of. 

I believe in love stories that stay untold. I believe ones where letters are written everyday for several decades. I believe that love sustains. I believe in those stories today, mine, some others, of the ones I know. Love is beautiful, is it really?

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

Am i writing anything nonsense

There is again, a torrent of thoughts in my mind. Am I a writer? What am I writing? Does it make any sense at all or does it make too much sense? Why do I write? Do I want people to read and tell me it's good or do I hope, but in vain, that my thoughts, once out there, will not surface again to haunt and nag?

When your writing is taken in the opposite sense of what you wanted it to be, doesn't that make you a not-so-good writer? No, I do not need validation here. I do not need anyone telling me whether I am good or bad. These are thoughts aloud.

I do not mean to hurt, I don't think most people in the world intend to hurt others at all. But yet I seem to, by words, spoken, written. Would it be that I am too forthright? Or maybe, like a mother whose child can never do a wrong, I am blind when I write. Maybe I cannot see what you might when you read it. Maybe that is what hurts.

As a human being, I feel And I used to write here because I wanted you to know how I feel. My feelings probably still trickle out there between these words. But maybe they no longer make any sense.

Save earth its only planet with gals

Girls are a very complex species. By nature, we assume that we know everything about girls, but sadly this is as far from the truth as possible. Try as we may, we cannot solve the conundrum of girls, and the truth is that we never will. There are a number of psychological and evolutionary reasons why girls behave the way they do, and we cannot know all these factors. The first thing that you should know is that every girl is different from others only in their appearance. Inside them, they all have the same nature of motherhood and protective influence which has evolved from the time man was born. While men set out to hunt, women stayed back and protected the nest. This is where these feelings and emotions originated from. Apart from that, you must also remember that every girl, each and every single one of them, just wants to feel special, especially in relationships.

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

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"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it?

"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armour, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give then a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

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In coll days we have some comitted relationships….is it true..r its just attraction in teenage ? ? ?

Its staying up late for each other & barely staying awake in class the next day. Its passing each other between classes & stopping to say hi, but ending up running to your next class right before the bell rings. Its going to the mall, wandering around hand in hand, with a silence that’s comfortable. Its watching a movie in the theaters with his arm slowly creeping onto her shoulders,&you resting your head in his arms. Its walking around at night, for no reason at all; his chest, her head,lokking at the stars. Its uncertainty of how long it will last, a risk you’re  both willing to take, even if it means you’ll have a broken heart. It’s not yet true love, not like, nor just, nor infatuation. Its teenage love, here to stay, here to play with our hearts & never to go away and finally i just hate these type of relationships:-)

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

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How to build a beautiful Life ?

I think there is 6 ways to build a wondeful life

Live Below Your Means : There will always be temptation to forsake the future for immediate gratification. We all want to buy that new piece of technology, treat ourselves to an expensive night on the town, or take out a loan for the flashy car we can’t afford. It might feel great at the time but rash spending hurts a lot later on.

Enjoy life’s simple pleasures and save as much as you can. Expensive things don’t create lasting happiness and security. Careful spending will bring you greater leisure and enjoyment in the long run.

Put Your Money to Work : Saving is great, but to make the most of your money you need to put it to work. Good investments can be the difference between retiring in your 40’s or in your 60’s.

Educate Yourself : To be happy we need continuous growth. The best way to grow is life long education. This doesn’t mean you need to pursue a doctorate or spend 2 hours reading every day. Self education can be anything  that takes you out of your comfort zone. The important part is keeping an open mind and searching for fresh ideas and perspectives.Education builds over time. It might feel like the bits of wisdom you acquire don’t mean much, but over the years they add up to form a wiser, kinder, more interesting person.

 Develop Lasting Personal Relationships : Suppose you had everything you wanted. Would you be happy without anyone to share it with? The personal relationships we develop with friends and family members are the greatest source of happiness in our lives. Don’t forget about them.

Taking the time to cultivate and enjoy personal relationships is essential to longterm happiness. Without the people you care about you’ll probably be miserable, no matter how successful you become.

Work Towards a Dream You’re Passionate About : Even if your life isn’t perfect, you can always build towards a goal you’re passionate about. If you aren’t building towards something, you’re probably stagnating. When this happens to me I start to feel like a victim trapped by my own life. The best way to reverse this is working towards a goal.We can’t control everything about our lives, but working towards a goal gives us something positive to focus on and lays the foundation for future success. No matter what your passion is, get out there and  start doing some thing.  As Lao Tzu said, even a journey of 1,000 miles begins with a single step.

Stay in Shape : You only get one body. Once it’s been ruined there isn’t much you can do about it. Exercise to keep the rust off. Avoid excessive consumption of damaging substances and unhealthy foods. It may feel like terrible self denial at the time but enjoying good health in your later years is worth the sacrifice.

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

Realisations about relationships

So much joy all around that it is easy to forget the silly little things that much happiness. There is a meaning to everything. As the world around and inside renews bonds, forms new ones, I rejoice. Then I watch the distances that have made their presence felt in other relationships. The heart does not like it but the head says, maybe that’s nature’s way of balancing life. After all closeness is a matter of choice and time. Maybe now is not the moment to be present in their lives. But at the same time, I need to remind myself that sometimes life keeps away those you really care about. That’s just how things are.

Over years I have sensed that relationships with others are either about acceptance, rejection or sometimes just a silent presence. Acceptance is participation by all in enriching each others lives. Silent presence ensures a measured response, neither with you, nor away. It adds nothing, takes away much or adds a lot and takes away nothing. But when there is rejection, the heart aches. But the one thing I have learnt is that we can’t strive for acceptance when the person in front doesn’t himself know the reason for rejection. We can’t force people to love when they choose to remain focused on doubt. We can’t help people smile when they are confident that life is out to hurt them. We can’t help people admire others when they are unhappy about themselves. We can’t help people understand others when they don’t understand themselves. Jealousy stems from unfulfilled desires; suspicion stems from a lack of trust in love; arrogance stems from an absence of joy for how varied creation is. We are all so similar and yet we crave to establish our uniqueness. But we are all unique and that really requires no propaganda from ourselves.

It is so easy to love others when you love yourself. But if you choose to believe that the joy you require must come from the validation of others, you only set yourself up for misery. When you finally realize how much creation has filled you with, when you choose to explore the true potential and scope of your world, when you find yourself able to move beyond walls the world creates of success- you will find happiness. When you find yourself, others in that same space will find you, enriching your life in magical ways. Remember, the ones who are distant are people who are travelling on a different road from yours. If they join you sometime during the journey, your goals are the same. If not, that is their road to walk. You walk on yours.

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

*** its my life *** No More Regrets !!!

Just think……why should we regret or take a step back? All of us are equal. Why should we get scared because of any one? we are paying for each and every thing and so…. we must and should live in our  own path…in our  own way..

If anyone commented me, I’ll laugh bigger than them and if they did it again.., then I too will laugh again and share the joke with them… such that… they’ll get realised then or some other time.

If anyone annoyed me, I will annoy them double. So that….they’ll regret! If not…I just calmly watch them and have a strange look…and..it’s enough for them. If I was interested and studied…I’ll write the exams and answer anyone…if not…I will never even have a left look at them or answer anyone..and…of course…I hate to argue…because..i’m not responsible to answer anyone.

I’ll never cry for anything. Because.. god gave me people who loves me and cares for me..so..why should I cry? Aren’t the relationships enough for a successful life?

Don’t be scared of anyone. Just fear for the lord…!! Answer him for everything. There is no need to answer anyone…just answer to the lord and honour him..do whatever your heart says correct and don’t regret for anything and move a head..

And from now…….

No need to regret for any thing…because…it’s your life…perform your best and be the best…

Live like a legend!!!!

Your life should be a reflection for the way people desire to live inside…

Habituate to smile…itz the only medicine for a successful career!!! Cheers !!!

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

why the girls show attitude?

I can say without hesitation that girls can show great maturity than the boys having same age group. Not only in the education field it is cleared they have shown their skills and proved in all aspects what they face. A scientific experiments proved that when psychology is taken into account, girls have better mental growth than the boys belonging to the same peer group. It may be the reason in hindu marriage system generally the bride should have less age than bridegroom.

But it is difficult to assess the way of thinking of girls and the way they behave. Even though the girls generally like entertainment, they never show their willingness over their face, but boys having quick temper and recations in every activity. The girls behave as innocent but they enjoy each and every fun they face without being noticed to others around them.

In olden days culture belongs to a region, controls the girls from behave deliberately. As the western culture shows a great effect over our culture, they think in a modern way which is just they feel better to them. Girls from different regions behave in different way and have a distinctive psychology. But only the common thing among all the girls is they try to attract the others in indirect ways.

I think girls never neglect career, though they involved in a complex deeds. The girls from middle class generally think of things which belong to monetary sources. Most of the girls from middle class having goals pertaining to welfare of their family. Unlike middle class the rich people try to get entertainment  in all moments. Any way the way the girls behave, give us fun to the observers. The overall psychology  of girls is something all men should appreciate and recognize  J

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010

i am foodie -:)

hyderabad biryani...i just luv it -:)

i am very Foodie-:) food is  integral part of any life. Be it animals or human any form of life need food to continue living, working and doing something useful.There are many reasons why  i want to write this , one because i love food .. well even though i am not really someone who is specific about what i need to have everyday , as long as i eat something Veggie to suffice my hunger and do my work i am ok.  But sure if there is something special i am game! I love trying new hotels , new cuisines with only condition being what i have must not have any dead animal!! :D 

While having the food i realized the feast is something that is indispensable in any social gathering. The crowd i saw at the dinner hall seemed lot more than i had seen at the main hall. 

Food has a very important status in any culture. Though i eat less i love to try and taste new stuff. Every state , community, country has its own traditional cuisine and India being a nation that united amidst its diversity the food available in India surely is a variety. 

I guess it is the only place in the world we have all kinds of food - be it raw, cooked, fried, baked, steam cooked , grilled etc. 

Be it any festival we have special dishes across India in different tastes and names which is to be a  'must' present for the festivity. And none of the food could go without the Indian herbs and spices. Eating food in a banana leaf with the assortment of mouthwatering tasty , tangy and spicy dishes is a must in every south Indian home - especially  in Andhra pradesh (at least during marriages and festivities). 

The milk based sweet dishes and fish varieties are a treat in the east where as the thalis- veg and non -veg from the west and north is a divine 'amrut' one must try at least once. 

There are other dishes which i guess any foodie must try out - other foreign  country specialities. Except for Chinese and a bit of Continental i havent had a chance to try the same. 

So enjoy your food and yes please dont waste. Even when you go to a restaurant and find that you have got much more than what you can eat please ask them to neatly wrap it and you can hand over to some one poor for whom it could suffice for that night. So better dont use the same hand/spoon that you eat with to serve the same on to your plates so that it doesnt look like giving away used food JJJ

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HARIKRISHNA ANGARU

Copyright © Harikrishna 2010